By Olwethu Kota
In a groundbreaking effort to tackle the roots of gender-based violence (GBV) and promote men’s mental health, St. Mary’s Development and Care Centre recently hosted a powerful awareness campaign as part of the international 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence.
The event centered on emphasizing the role of men in addressing GBV, while also shining a spotlight on the often-overlooked issue of men’s mental health and emotional expression.
The campaign sought to break down harmful stereotypes, including the societal notion that “a man does not cry nor feel pain,” which often perpetuates cycles of violence and emotional suppression.
A day of dialogue and empowerment
Keynote speaker Dr. Elron Fouten from Rhodes University led an engaging session with participating men, creating a safe space for open and honest discussions about emotions, mental health struggles, and the impact of societal pressures. Dr. Fouten emphasized the importance of emotional expression in fostering healthier relationships and breaking the cycle of GBV.
The session resonated deeply with attendees, many of whom shared personal stories and reflections. By addressing the emotional barriers men face, the initiative highlighted the intricate connection between unaddressed mental health issues and GBV, encouraging participants to redefine masculinity in a healthier, more inclusive way.
Community support and appreciation
To celebrate the men’s participation and foster a sense of community, the DCC staff organized a heartfelt braai. This gesture provided a relaxed environment for attendees to connect, reflect, and bond over shared experiences. The event also underscored the Centre’s commitment to supporting men in their journey toward emotional well-being and positive change. The day would not have been complete without the support of valued partners. The Social Employment Fund Monument, played an active role, engaging in discussions and offering insight into how community collaboration can create lasting change. Thank you to Ruben Arries, Hilton Haakonsen and team for making this possible by offering your time to be part of this special day. Special thanks also go to the IT Department of Diocesan School for Girls for contributing their music PA system, which added a vibrant energy to the day.
Driving change in Makhanda
St. Mary’s DCC’s innovative approach to integrating men into conversations about GBV and mental health is a significant step forward in fostering long-term community transformation. By addressing the roots of violence and promoting open dialogue, the Centre is paving the way for a healthier, more inclusive future.
“This campaign is not just about raising awareness but also about building a culture of empathy, accountability, and emotional well-being among men,” said a DCC spokesperson. “We believe that by empowering men to express their emotions and confront societal expectations, we can create a ripple effect of positive change in our community.”
A call to action
As Makhanda joins the global fight against GBV, St. Mary’s DCC calls on all community members to reflect on the role they play in creating a safer, more supportive environment. The Centre’s campaign is a reminder that everyone—men, women, and children—has a part to play in addressing these critical issues.
For more information on St. Mary’s DCC’s initiatives or to get involved, please contact the Centre or visit their social media platforms.
Together, we can create a world where compassion, respect, and mental health thrive.
